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Experience has suggested to me that not every person finds it easy to
know what goals to set in each specific area until they are asked the
right questions. When these right questions are asked, the light goes
on and a clear image can come into focus.
Typically, you need questions that help
you review your life and your achievements and understand the aspects of
your life that you have enjoyed, that you are enthused by.
Being asked the right questions can be the
key to unlocking your future success and happiness. Not only can
it provide enormous motivational energy, but it can direct your
attention towards the things you should really be doing.
Being asked the right questions can help
you keep a more balanced approach to goal setting. It can help you
see interactions between different areas of your life. Good goal
setting is more enriching when it covers all areas of your life.
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To get you started, I have taken some
questions from the "Goals You Value"
workbook
and replicated them below. You should consider purchasing this
simple goals workbook because, for some of you, it will provide the
point where you need to start your goal setting journey. While it
is quite basic and you don't need it to achieve goal setting success, it
provides you with a framework to get started. If it does that for
you, it will return your investment many 100's or 1,000's of times - or
even more.
Question 1
What were your significant achievements
last year?
This is a really fun question. It is
a question worth considering, not only by yourself, but with others that
are significant in your life. it is a question you should consider
even if you weren't embarking on a goal setting program. it is a
valuable question not only in the short term, bit it provides a great
record to look back on. [That is one advantage of purchasing the
"Goals You Value" workbook - it provides one central, easy to find,
organised place to keep a listing of your achievements.]
Question 2
Another question to consider:
What are the things important to you that you have still to achieve?
Some other important information from the
"Goals You Value" workbook is the importance of holism in your goal
setting. Your goals should cover all area of your life. The
"Goals You Value" workbook suggest the following areas:
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career
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family
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relationships
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personal growth and development
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spirituality
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community
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health, fitness and sport
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home and garden
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travel, holidays and hobbies
So, when you consider your
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Make sure you also consider them with
respect to the above area.
If you would like some guidance with your
goal setting, please
contact us.
What can you do after you have answered
these questions
After
you have discussed these questions with your partner (or just considered
them yourself) you are in a position to take
yourself ahead five (5) years and imagine your ideal life. Of course,
you don’t have to take yourself ahead five years. It could be ten years
or three years or two years or one year or even six months. But, you do
need to take yourself into the future and imagine your ideal life. See
it, hear it, feel it, taste it and smell it. Make the image of this
ideal life as powerful as you can so that you are totally excited by it,
totally motivated by it. How clearly can you see what that life is?
How strongly can you feel the power and the enjoyment of having life
that way?
Can
you imagine how you look and how you feel?
Do
you see the type of work you are doing?
Do
you notice your relationships?
Are
you totally happy with your financial situation?
How
clearly do you notice your success in life?
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Answering these
and related questions will help you build your personal goal profile.
From your personal goals profile, you will know what your what goals to
set in specific areas of your life – business, sport, education, travel,
health etc.
This process has been taken from the
"Goals You Value" workbook. This
goals workbook takes you
through the process step by step. Load down a FREE trial version of
this workbook and work through it. I suggest that you will find it a
very valuable process to complete this goals workbook. It will help you
gain a clearer picture of the goals that you should set that will
improve the quality of your life. It will help you set goals that are
more ecological. More ecological with regard to your own personal
ecology and wellbeing.
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